Relationship means something complete,finished,closed.Love is never relationship;love is relating.It is always a river flowing unending.Love knows no full stop.It is not like a novel that starts at a certain point and ends at a point.It is an ongoing phenomenon.Lovers end love continues.It is a continnum.It is a verb not noun..
Why do we reduce the beauty of relating to relationship??Why are we in such a hurry??...
.......well because to relate is insecure,,and relationship has security,,relationship has certainty..
You are in love with a man or a woman and immediately you start thinking of getting married.You make a legal contract.Why??How does the law comes into love??The law comes into love because love is not there.It is only a fantasy and you know the fantasy will disappear.Besides it disappear settle down.Before it disappears do something so it becomes impossible to separate...
In a better world, with more meditative people ,with a little more enlightenment spread over the earth,people will love immensely,,but there love will remain a relating not a relationship.I am not saying that there love will be only momentaryThere is every possibilty there love may go deeper than your love.may have a higher quality of intimacy,may have something more than poetry more than divine in it.And there is every possibility that there love may lasts longer than your so called relationship ever lasts. But it will not be guaranteed,by the law,by the court,by the police man,the guarantee will b inner .
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ReplyDeleteI guess its the other way, we need to create love in relationships to make them successful. Love is to 'service, peace and to create harmony.
ReplyDeleteThe above mentioned love is not love in real sense, its a wasted form of greed, selfishness and blindness of new age impatient human species. How many of us bake a cake at home? majority of us like to get it handy! that's it..
anyways, its a meaningful post!
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mr. new kid on blog!